My girlfriends and I are all single and yet even with our age almost lapsing the calendar, we refused to actively get in the dating scene.
PS: I don't own any of these pics shown above.
Here are just a few reasons why. It may or may not hit home with you. But this is what's true for us.
1. We needed to take time to heal our hearts. I know, I know, there should be a limit to all these heart-healing, we all have varying capabilities on that. Some people are blessed to be ok the following day after a break up. I think we just suck on that area.
2. We'd rather focus more on pursuing our dreams and be the person whom we would like ourselves to be. It's easier to get lost once you're in a relationship and you haven't decided on your path in life. So right before getting in one, decide and live your dream.
3. The knowing that 'he' will come in the right time. They say that love strikes when you least expect it, so we needed to focus on something else because it would be the time that we would least expect for love striking us. Do you get the flow here? wink wink
We refused to wait for our men to get to us, instead we prepare by becoming our truest selves and living the way we want to live. When the guy sees your authenticity and what you stand for, and if and when he sees that you are a match to his true self, then that's when the magic happens.
So gals, don't wait, but prepare and live your dreams. He'll come knocking eventually.
PS: I don't own any of these pics shown above.
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