It really pays to have trusted friends whom you could share all your deepest, darkest secrets to, someone whom you don't mind crying your inner soul to. However there are times that it will bite you in the ass for saying EVERYTHING
Here's the truth.
Familiarity breeds contempt. I know, I know, its your friend, they usually accept you for who you are
They are humans too and more likely than not, they could end up pretty judge y. They've known your steamy past with some boys, and so they know your philandering nature. And when you say that, you'll take your time with a recent guy you're dating, they would almost not believe you because they have come to 'know you'. And now you're suddenly feeling that this character which you have been feeding them way before, is now screwed to you like nuts and bolts and you will be forever known to be like that, to be the lazy one, the crazy one, the obsessed one, the weak one.
Familiarity breeds contempt. I know, I know, its your friend, they usually accept you for who you are
They are humans too and more likely than not, they could end up pretty judge y. They've known your steamy past with some boys, and so they know your philandering nature. And when you say that, you'll take your time with a recent guy you're dating, they would almost not believe you because they have come to 'know you'. And now you're suddenly feeling that this character which you have been feeding them way before, is now screwed to you like nuts and bolts and you will be forever known to be like that, to be the lazy one, the crazy one, the obsessed one, the weak one.
And every time you are trying to say that you are otherwise, they would say 'I understand', but deep down you know that she's saying 'yeah right'.
You may have to really change in the inside, for other people's impression of you to change. They would know a half bait attempt when they see one. So save your words, because words could only bring you that far. It's with consistent action that would really stamp the deal. It may take awhile, but if you do things repeatedly, then you may have a good chance to be successful on changing yourself and other people's opinion of you.
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